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Sunday, March 6, 2022

Remembering Daya, correspondence.

 

Dear Phillip, & Ramya, Queenie & Shirani,
Thank you ever so much for that truly touching appreciation and the poems. I know you two had a lot in common - not only vocation, interests & hobbies, but also values & attitudes. He loved to have chats with you whenever we met & recently on the phone. I am truly sorry I missed your phone calls - shall try to whatsapp you tomorrow.
The last days were hectic as you can imagine and we left SL & arrived in Aus yesterday.
Yes, we had a wonderful 55 years together & he always wanted a quick end - so there is much to be thankful for. 
We had visited Yala in Jan & Wilpattu in Feb & Daya walked on the beach at 6am in Mannar to see thousands of flamingos on 12th Feb. - just 10 days before he passed away. 
On his return he got a diarrhoea which made him very weak and he had a fall on 19th night and I admitted him to Central (CCU) although he had no injuries. Both the cardiologist & intensivist assured me that there were no major issues - some new ECG changes, slight LVF but EF was 50% & assured me he could be easily managed. CT head was normal. 
22nd 3am he had a seizure & arrested. Luckily my daughter had arrived an hour before and we were both with him.
So a good end to a good life. 
Although when we have had it so good we are always greedy for more. Daya was ultra keen to come back to Australia and very excited when Australia opened its doors in Jan. Determined to enjoy B-class travel too! We had our visas, travel exemption, covid certification & were all set to return to our grand kids "for one last lap" as he called it. He was always totally involved in all their activities driving them to school and all the extra-curricular activities - netball, swimming, dancing, tennis, athletics, music, etc. He wanted one more term of all that & a few more walks round our Waterways lake & maybe even a few more lunches with our batch friends! 
Today I went for Aiyana's netball match and so many came to console remembering him & that we were an integral part of the cheer squad! I miss him so much - at every corner & every turn as we did everything together specially in the last few years. But the memories are wonderful and the girls will keep me going.
Thanks again phillip.
Take care of yourself & yours.
Treasure every moment you have - life is so fleeting!
Nalini

Another poem I love :

Death Is Nothing At All

Henry Scott-HollandBy Henry Scott-Holland More Henry Scott-Holland

Death is nothing at all. 
It does not count. 
I have only slipped away into the next room. 
Nothing has happened. 

Everything remains exactly as it was. 
I am I, and you are you, 
and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged. 
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. 

Call me by the old familiar name. 
Speak of me in the easy way which you always used. 
Put no difference into your tone. 
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. 

Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. 
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. 
Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it. 

Life means all that it ever meant. 
It is the same as it ever was. 
There is absolute and unbroken continuity. 
What is this death but a negligible accident? 

Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? 
I am but waiting for you, for an interval, 
somewhere very near, 
just round the corner. 

All is well. 
Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost. 
One brief moment and all will be as it was before. 
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!



Source: https://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/death-is-nothing-at-all-by-henry-scott-holland

email from Kamalini Arul
 
Phillip,
Thank you for sharing that beautiful tribute for Daya you sent to Nalini. We take so much for granted, then it’s gone in a moment.
We have to be grateful we have had all these years of happiness which is truly a gift. Not our right.
Kind regards
Kamalini


email from Sujiva 

Dear Philip,

A lovely appreciation , evocative  of Daya and of bygone days. We find consolation in our memories.  “treasure every moment” as Nalini wrote to me.
Stay Well
Sujiva

email from Chitra and GU

Dear Phillip

Thanks for  sharing those lovely memories of Daya and yourself during your working life,interests shared and also the poems.

Chitra and GU




                                   



The late Dr. Daya Rodrigo and the late Dr. Burhan at the Alupola waterfalls. This was photo taken by me, on a NHSL Consultants day out trip.



At the French Cafe at Paradise Estate, Ratnapura.





Near the computer, Consultants Lounge, NHSL.








Saturday, March 5, 2022

Obituary, H B Jayasekara, husband of Dr. Lucky Wanigaratne.




 

Obituary, Dr. D V Atapattu.

 


 

Sad News- Dr Don Victor Atapattu waves Good Bye to his batchmates.

Sena & Sarojini

6:45 PM (42 minutes ago)

to me, 1960batch@gmail.com, karu1941@outlook.com, sfdrbmakuloluwe@gmail.com, lakshmankarals35@gmail.com, hettige@talktalk.net, nihal408@att.net, orajakarier@optusnet.com.au

Hi Philip

You may have already received the sad news of the death of another batchmate of ours- D.V.Atapattu who passed away peacefully on the 1st of Feb 2022. He was a consultant forensic psychiatrist serving the NHS UK.His final farewell service will be held At Bluebell Cemetery, Old London Road, Sevenoaks, TN14 7AE ( UK)From 1.45 pm. A reception will be held immediately afterwardsat The Darenth Golf & Country Club, Station Road Sevenoaks  TN14 7SA.

He is survived by his wife Devika and his children Keerthi & Anuja.

Devika can be contacted via:

devikaatapattu@yahoo.co.uk

Please share this with our batchmates for their information.

Lets remember all our batch mates with nostalgia & respect.

Regards

Nana

C.S.Nanayakkara

Dr Daya Rodrigo, Senior Surgeon, NHSL, Colombo, Sri Lanka.

 

Dr. Daya Rodrigo, Senior Surgeon. NHSL

Remembering Daya Rodrigo

Dr. Daya Rodrigo was senior to me at the Medical Faculty, Kynsey Road, Colombo. He was married to my batch mate of 1960 entrants, Dr. Nalini Ratnayake. I came into close contact with Daya when we were Consultant Surgeon colleagues, at the General Hospital – GH Colombo, later renamed the National Hospital of Sri Lanka – NHSL, from 1991 to 2000.

Daya would be in the Consultants lounge at the NHSL, regularly at around 12pm. Most of the time, he would be waiting for his better half Nalini, to turn up. They were very close, this couple. I have never seen this couple having confrontations. If there was any differences opinion on any matter, it was always discussed with soft voices and smiles.

From 1991 to the year 2000 I would come for my lunch break to see Daya seated in the Consultants Lounge. The topics we discussed ranged from computers, cars, general state of our country etc.

Daya and myself started our introduction to computers using the Sinclair ZX 81 and the Spectrum.  The Sinclair ZX 81 had only one KB storage space.  The computer had its memory storage in an audio cassette. The audio player was connected to the ZX. The monitor we used was the home TV. We programmed the computer using BASIC as the language of the computer.

 ZX had to be connected to the TV input to play a game of chess, we bought the package to run chess stored in a ‘floppy disc’. The loading of the programme to the ZX81 took a long time. We would start the loading process and maybe take a shower and come back to see, that the computer had just finished loading the programme.

In the early 1990s there were other micro computers in the market. There was the top of the list the BBC micro, and there was the Atari.

We had some programmes entered in BASIC and running. Daya introduced the use of the microcomputers in analysis of data to the Post-Graduate Institute of Medicine, Colombo.

We were using the CDs to listen to music and watch films on our TVs. There were games, films and various programmes ‘written’ on the CDs. The computers at home that we were using did not have the ability to write data on CDs.

One day Daya took me to see the computer room in the Medical Faculty Library. It had a computer to read and write data to the writeable CD. They had CDs from Medline bought every month updating publication on ‘Medline’. This was quite amazing to us. Before long we bought our own right able CDs.

The Windows programmes made their appearance. Mr. Ariyathilake who was a patient of Daya, was our computer expert dealing with hardware and software. We did regular upgrades with him.

Daya was also was interested in Photography. We used film cameras till the early part of the twenty first Century. Then came the Digital cameras and we progressed in photography using only digital cameras.

Daya was very interested in wild life photography. Daya and Nalini made regular trips to our National Parks. Once he had relocated a Python from outside the park to release it inside the park premises. He had taken the Python and used his car to transport it.

Daya had a fund of stories to relate and it was a pleasure to listen to them.

In the last conversation I had with Daya he asked me about the photos I took,  in my newly acquired ‘GoPro 9’ camera that I had recently acquired. I told him that it had a tough learning curve, but that I was progressing.

The first news we got of  Daya’s demise was from Sujiva and Buddy via email. It came as a real shock, because Daya was active and Nalini and Daya had done a trip to one of our National Parks and were planning on a trip to Australia, to stay with his daughter for a few months.

I tried to get Nalini to give her our condolences on the phone.

Nalini being close to him all these years would miss him and a loss of this magnitude would be very hard to bear. But she is sure to come out of her sorrow and we would like to see her in her earlier active self.

I picked two poems for Nalini to read and reminisce.

 Nalini, ‘ May the Good Lord Bless and Keep you…’

Philip and Ramya.

 

Tuesday, March 1, 2022

Appreciation - Dr. Daya Rodrigo.


Crossing The Bar Poem by Alfred Lord Tennyson



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