Dear
Philip
Trust you
are keeping well. I keep in touch with Derrwick who is still in Nawala.
I have
written a tribute to Verny Abeynaike and would be most grateful if you could
publish in your blog. It highlights one of my big regrets not seeing him after
our last meeting.
Please
include his photo
Thank you
Regards
Nihal Amerasekera
The Kindness of a Stranger –
A Tribute to Vernon Abeynaike
When Ceylon/Sri Lanka had
just the one medical school, doctors were a small group. They knew each other.
A strong cohesion remained among the medics. At times the bond seemed
tribal especially when in the GMOA, in the midst of its many battles with
the Health Service. When the second medical school opened in Peradeniya this
unity was somewhat diluted. From 1970-74, I criss-crossed the country
on my official travels for the Central Blood Bank. These journeys were regarded
as my adventures to see the unsophisticated charm of my homeland at government
expense. In those four years with the Transfusion Service I saw much of Sri
Lanka, in close quarters, much more than most people of my generation.
Once I went on an
official trip to Welimada. I had booked a room for the night in the rest
house. When I arrived there in the late afternoon I was met by the DMO,
Dr. Vernon Abeynaike. He was a final year student when I entered the
faculty. I knew him only by sight. After the usual pleasantries, he asked
me to stay with him. He spoke to the Rest House keeper and got my
booking cancelled. Vernon and his wife made me feel at home in their
lovely and spacious DMO’s bungalow. The house had lovely views of the
surrounding countryside and the lush green mountains. He was delightful company
and had a fine repertoire of amusing anecdotes. We laughed and joked so much.
After a delicious dinner we chatted well into the night. This was indeed an act
of kindness and generous hospitality to a “ complete stranger”. Despite the passage
of nearly half a century I still remember with much gratitude his thoughtful
and lavish courtesy and humanity.
Soon after this trip I
emigrated to the UK. While nurturing for my career and the family my trips home
became few and brief. I never got a chance to make contact with Vernon again. I
am now aware that after Welimada he retired from the Health Service. For many
years, Vernon was a successful GP in Mt Lavinia. I was deeply saddened to see
his obituary in May 2013. I do regret my inability to see him again. As I
write this note on a windswept winters day in London I could still see his
smiling face and the warm welcome I received in Welimada all those years ago. I
will always remember Vernon for his generosity, humility and decency.
May Vernon be blessed with
everlasting peace. RIP.
Comments by
CHARITH NANAYAKKARA
Jan 15, 2020, 10:29 PM (5 hours ago)
to me, M.G.S, M.P.
Hi Philip
As the long-standing webmaster of our batch blog which you maintain, you have continued to be a regular contributor covering wide variety of topics of common interest. I read them with great interest and my sincere thanks for your continuing effort & enthusiasm.
You also allow limited access to few selective ‘outsiders’.
It is likely many of our batch mates in our batch and few outsiders may glance through the blog as regular or occasional readers and enjoy the contents in it.
It is likely that many of us who are Twilighters may be too lazy or indifferent to add any comment but do not get too discouraged and please remain active and keep stimulating our dying brain cells.
Like me and few other batch mates and you must be somewhat disappointed to note paucity of ‘comments’ appearing against any of the added contents.
It is apparent you are not disheartened with such a poor response.
May I suggest that you send another reminder to all the web readers how to add any comments with relative ease if they care.
My main reason for my lengthy ‘comment’ is to show my great appreciation for an ‘Appreciation’ written about one of our batch mates who passed away few years ago.
This was very kindly sent to you for publication in our blog by Dr. Nihal Amarasekera.
ND( as he is better known) has previously sent a very well written article on Derrwick De Silva which you published sometime earlier.
Some of us may be aware that ND is only 3 years junior to us and is very talented with his literally skills. I have admired his hobby as a talented writer and have read most of the interesting articles he has published in the Sri Lanka news media- ISLAND over many years.
In addition I have also enjoyed his regular and popular contributions he makes in their own blog maintained by another talented writer- Lucky.
We must encourage more of these from ‘outsiders’ especially when most of our batch mates are apparently in a deep slumber!
Please share this with our batch mates if you are happy and would you please also share this with ND as I do not have any of his contact details.
Best wishes all round
Nana
C.S. Nanayakkara
Sent from my I Pad
Comments by
CHARITH NANAYAKKARA
Jan 15, 2020, 10:29 PM (5 hours ago)
to me, M.G.S, M.P.
Hi Philip
As the long-standing webmaster of our batch blog which you maintain, you have continued to be a regular contributor covering wide variety of topics of common interest. I read them with great interest and my sincere thanks for your continuing effort & enthusiasm.
You also allow limited access to few selective ‘outsiders’.
It is likely many of our batch mates in our batch and few outsiders may glance through the blog as regular or occasional readers and enjoy the contents in it.
It is likely that many of us who are Twilighters may be too lazy or indifferent to add any comment but do not get too discouraged and please remain active and keep stimulating our dying brain cells.
Like me and few other batch mates and you must be somewhat disappointed to note paucity of ‘comments’ appearing against any of the added contents.
It is apparent you are not disheartened with such a poor response.
May I suggest that you send another reminder to all the web readers how to add any comments with relative ease if they care.
My main reason for my lengthy ‘comment’ is to show my great appreciation for an ‘Appreciation’ written about one of our batch mates who passed away few years ago.
This was very kindly sent to you for publication in our blog by Dr. Nihal Amarasekera.
ND( as he is better known) has previously sent a very well written article on Derrwick De Silva which you published sometime earlier.
Some of us may be aware that ND is only 3 years junior to us and is very talented with his literally skills. I have admired his hobby as a talented writer and have read most of the interesting articles he has published in the Sri Lanka news media- ISLAND over many years.
In addition I have also enjoyed his regular and popular contributions he makes in their own blog maintained by another talented writer- Lucky.
We must encourage more of these from ‘outsiders’ especially when most of our batch mates are apparently in a deep slumber!
Please share this with our batch mates if you are happy and would you please also share this with ND as I do not have any of his contact details.
Best wishes all round
Nana
C.S. Nanayakkara
Sent from my I Pad
