What a good thing that turned out to
be. Because,that’s what made me befriend Das as I had to join his group to
repeat Rienzie’s ward classes.
The discussion on the first day was
on dislocation of the shoulder joint. We were crowding round a young man who
was holding his right upper limb vertically up. Rienzie said, ‘This is Luxatio
Erecta’ and explained that it was a rare type of dislocation. Das and I giggled
as if by the simultaneous stimulation of a nerve - likely the nervi erigentes,because
the term erecta combined with the vertical arm were the triggers for our
amusement. And, this term was to play a major part in our long and rather close
friendship. More of it in a moment.
Das was the epitome of a Jolly-Good Fellow.
Never without a smile on his face, he was always spreading gaiety around with
his loud guffaws and witty remarks, often in broken Sinhala, that made them all
the more hilarious.
Das had one of the loudest laughs in
the Bloem, where both of us were inmates. He didn’t need much to laugh at, and
often there was nothing to laugh about! But the effect of his unprovoked
chuckles was that they incited others to chuckle themselves. At no time meaning
any insult, he would use raw, filthy Sinhala terms to prefix names of people,
often using the wrong gender, much to the amusement of the listeners. He was
certainly no misogynist, and those were days when the term sexual harassment
was unheard of, at least among our batch. So, Das’s description of some of our
female colleagues, done totally in fun, was so hilarious as the Sinhala terms
he used were most inappropriate!
Right through our time in medical
college, ever since that ward class, we greeted each other saying, ‘Luxatio’
while the other responded, ‘Erecta’. After many years without contact after
qualifying, I connected with Das who had emigrated to Queensland, Australia.
Even then, when he called me, he would say, ‘Adey, luxatio’ and I
would acknowledge it by replying, ‘Adey, erecta’. This continued
over several years, and was kept up even when we met at our get together in
Habarana in July, 2010.
A few years ago Das stopped calling,
and my calls and emails went unanswered. Sadly, I got to know that he had
gradually ceased to be interested in his surroundings. Our batch mate Ragupathy
from Malaysia conveyed the sad news from the States, where he was holidaying,
that Das had passed away.
I am sure I speak for all of my 1960
batch colleagues when I express my deepest sympathies to his wife, Mani, and
the rest of the family on the loss of our dear batch mate, Purushothama Das.
It’s me saying, ‘Luxatio my
friend’. I am very sad not to get your usual response.
Dear Philippo,
Wonder if this is okay.
Please let me know.
Regards.
Geri.
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